Winners vs Losers

Who is winner ..how is he/she different from a loser ..here is my definition ...
A winner is a person who loves himself/herself ...it means that they care for what happens to them and wat is that they are doing to better themselves ...he ( taking he as default from now on ..:-) ) believes in his ideals and is willing to stand by them..doesnt easily compromise on them ...his life is continous process of introspection and betterment coz he believes in outdoing himself every day ..that is the challenge for him in life ..
making the most of the life ..he gives importance to only those elements that he finds are fruitful for him ...everything that one does ..having fun , studying , cooking is an investment for him in himself ..all these things teach him something .. in short a winner is a person who is comfortable with his own self ...others opinions about him do not matter much to him ..coz he knows himself ..he only values the opinions of the people he think are worth considering ...doesnt get bogged down by illogical constraints of the society ...

on the other hand you will find that a loser will always crib ..he will want to place the blame on everything around him rather than just taking charge of things for himself and then going about how to solve them ....losers want attention ..they want people to sympathize with them ..tell them they are very nice and hence give a false boost to the ego of the loser ..they need constant reassurances ..

Losers are parasites who will always want to cling to winners , try to gain their assurances but the self composure of a winner is what they lack and they try to get a part of it by clinging on to them ..by trying to enter their good books ...what they dont realise is that this is all in vain ..a the spirit of a winner cannot be sucked out by them until and unless they take charge of themselves and start building up on thier own ...